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Nama nya juga ibu-ibu gak jauh dari yang nama nya diskon, promo, sale. nah sekarang muncul tambahan buat ibu-ibu jenis saya, jenis apa atuh? 😀

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lumayan kan cashback dari hasil belanja kamu, cring-cring bisa jadi barang lagi, bisa dicairkan ke rekening bank kamu sendiri lho.


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Yuk, lumayan kan belanja bukan cuma dapet diskon dari voucher diskon , point, dapet uang juga *wink* enak toh



Learning “How to” Setting Your Goal

Setting a goal is not as simple as i thought before, most people define a goal is something that you want to reach, without making any step progress. DREAM ON 😀

It is important in a process of creating goal structure, you need illustrating or writing on your goal.

The famous helper method is SMART, it stands for:

S : Specific

Define a specific goal it is the most important thing so you can determine the next step.

Ex: losing 10 kg in a month is better than setting a goal like this: losing weight

Tips: Choose one goal only rather than creating many goals at the same time it will help you focus.

M : Measurable

Define a specific number you need to reach to get accuracy of goal

Ex: you need to scale how much weight loss you want in your goal, write in your goal plan

Tips: Make it super specific, it can help you when breaking it into a process

 A : Actionable

Define how’s the goal will be achieved, just like you climb a tree, you need to take a step by step move on its twig.

Tips: Create an action plan which way to go, how to get there, just like instruction from GPS, tiny actions steps is important

 R : Relevant

Monitoring goals whether there are so many goals, comparing effort and value, checking the condition to fit your goal

 T : Time Bound

Calculating the time, how to divide the time you need on finishing each step process

More explanation about goal system setting, i get it from this video, some tips already written are based from explanation from here.

5 steps to get your goal more effectively

have you get this question below walking down your mind? how to turn into an effective goal?, what is the challenges? how is your chances?, can you stick with it?.etc

this video might help 🙂

1. Pick one goal for the next 30 days.

I’m sure we have lot’s of goals but it’s better you pick one goal, its better to start  small you can achieved in 30 days.

Why 30 days? because its how long it takes to form a habit, once the habit is in place success become automatic and progress consistent. Don’t focused on several goals at once actually it will decreases your chances of accomplishing anything, so start small and make it simple doing. Goal Setting = Goal Getting , Make it fun like hobbies not homework that assign your self doing and try to force yourself of doing it.

2. Make your goal specific and measurable.

vague goals bring vague result, why? because while your analytical mind is great at thinking in term of abstract notion, beauty, tons of money, health. Your subconscious mind doesn’t understand them and ignore all these statement all together.

in order in top of power your subconscious mind and to keep motivated  you have to give it measurable and specific instruction of your desire outcome.
use like you would to google your goal and  get image of what you want. for example: you would not search your dream car by writing dream car or new car in google search engine, right? you might want to directly search for specific car like what car?, what type?, what color?, what year they are?.
3. Write it down and re-write it every day
writing it down makes you perceived as you do something you shouldn’t  taken lately, its like signing a contract with yourself, committing to your goal every single day that is why write it down and re-write it every day is very effective boosting your motivation and keep your focus throughout the day.

4. Create an action plan

you can’t get from point A to B without asking for direction first and learning exactly where to make a turn, which way to go or how long it will take to get there. Having a clear action plan just like getting precise instruction from GPS when traveling to new place, the smaller and more thought through the action steps are the easier to achieve  something.
Tract your progress and stay flexible, that is why breaking your goal into bite size action that takes 10-15 minutes to complete is by far of the most  one of the important step of entire failure goal system setting.
just keep in mind that “has to follow” planning, brilliant plan without action plan is  futile just like a massive amount action without a plan is tiresome and not very effective, be smart, think strategically, take action, adjust and act again.
5. Focus on activity not the end result
Almost every goal setting system saying focused on the end result, the latest result from university of Chicago and Korea shows that focusing on the end result can decrease your motivation and increases chances of failure, it turns out focusing on your end results boost your intention to achieve your goal but it actually detract the pleasure of the activity, make each step seem harder and more tiresome. focusing on activity at hand beat running treadmill, learning Japanese or writing a novel makes a whole process seems easier and more fun  helping you to stick to your goal longer.
Hope this can help you as it can help me too 🙂

How to help your child with their study

This one is part of my challenges too :p

Becoming a working mother is challenging, lots of responsibilities in limited time can be very stressful. For instead, My daughter, she need to be accompanied to do her homework, though not all the time but most of the time. 😀 She is very dependent to me and others for almost everything, that is so frustrating.

As a person, there is a time you are not in good condition to do all the responsibilities, mood swing etc. meanwhile after you got home and found out that your daughter hasn’t finished her homework or soon there will be a class exam and she had a lot things to catch up but always so many reasons to avoid it. That depressed me a lots -__-

I have to admit that i become a horrible mom when tired, worried and lots of thought came over me all at once.

let’s stop talking about me…

It’s impossible to do it in the future, she need to be independent and i ask google tips for it 🙂

I found this article quite fit to my necessaries

Let’s summarized it 🙂
The Keys Are:

 1.Turn off the TV set.

Of course 🙂

2.What about the radio or other audio devices?

Some people can be more focused but my child no, it will distract her concentration.

3.Certain rules should be set about the family phone during study hours.

She doesn’t have a cellphone and no one calls for her

4.Designate specific areas for homework and studying

Bulletin board is a good idea

 5.Regularity is a key factor in academic success.

Yes, Agree!

 6.Consider you child’s developmental level when setting the amount of time for homework.

This need her will to do it 😀

7.Organize study and homework projects. Get a large calendar, one that allows space for jotting down things in the daily boxes. Rip it apart so that you (and the child) can sequentially mount the school months for the current semester. For example, you can tear off September, October, November, December, and January and mount them from left to right across one wall. Have the child use a bold color writing instrument (felt tip pen) to mark exam dates in one color, reports that are coming due in a different color, et cetera. This will serve as a reminder so that things aren’t set aside until the last dangerous moment.

Hmm Ok, Noted

8.Teach your child that studying is more than just doing homework assignments. One of the most misunderstood aspects of schoolwork is the difference between studying and doing homework assignments. Encourage your child to do things like:

  • take notes as he’s reading a chapter
  • learn to skim material
  • learn to study tables and charts
  • learn to summarize what he has read in his own words
  • learn to make his own flashcards for quick review of dates, formulas, spelling words, et cetera

Note-taking is a critical skill and should be developed. Many students don’t know how to take notes in those classes that require them. Some feel they have to write down every word the teacher says. Others have wisely realized the value of an outline form of note-taking. Well prepared teachers present their material in a format that lends itself to outline form note taking..

Should notes ever be rewritten? In some cases, they should be, particularly if a lot of material was covered, and the youngster had to write quickly but lacks speed and organization. Rewriting notes takes time, but it can be an excellent review of the subject matter. However, rewriting notes isn’t worth the time unless they are used for review and recall of important information.

A home dictionary is essential, but if it is kept on a shelf to gather dust, it won’t do anyone any good. Keep it in an accessible place and let your child see you refer to it from time to time. If the family dictionary is kept in the living room and the child studies in his room, get him an inexpensive dictionary for his exclusive use. Good dictionary, encyclopedia and organizational skills depend on the ability to alphabetize. See if your child’s teacher practices alphabetizing in class. Try alphabetizing spelling words, family members’ names or a few favorite toys at home as a way of practicing.

This is good information for me, Noted!

 9.Help your child to feel confident for tests.

Of Course 🙂

10.During a homework session, watch for signs of frustration.

Well as a working mom, dealing with time and homework sometimes i become a pushy mom 😛 sorry dear :*

11.Should parents help with homework? Yes-if it is clearly productive to do so, such as calling out spelling words or checking a math problem that won’t prove. No-if it is something the child can clearly handle himself and learn from the process. And help and support should always be calmly and cheerfully given. Grudging help is worse than no help at all! Read directions, or check over math problems after your child has completed the work. Remember to make positive comments – you don’t want your child to associate homework with fights at home. Model research skills by involving your child in planning a family trip. Help your child locate your destination on a map or atlas. Use traditional encyclopedia or a CD-ROM to find information about the place you will visit; try the Internet or books in the library.

She always asking me to accompany her to study or do her homework

12.How best to handle report cards?

There’s no such card in public school only private school deliver a report card

Source: thanks to

additional reading:

Best Parenting for your children

Have you ever see, hear or read about this situation?

I have no idea, how this fight started 😀

Breastfeeding vs milk formula

Organic food vs instant food

Diaper vs cloth nappies

Working mom vs staying home mom

Vaccine vs natural immunity


These issues were once all over the social media OMG

these kind of issues still exist underneath, if you search it deeply, you can find some group in social media about it.

IMHO this kind of issues can’t solve any problem arise in both side, wasting time and chasing tails.

Breastfeeding for me is still the best option though i made it only for 5 month, organic food is my  choice, i use instant food just in rare case. i used cloth nappies for my new born baby but now i am using diaper. I’m working mom, definitely 🙂 last but not least i choose to vaccinated my children.

Parenting shouldn’t be divided by shallow thought, every parent have their own battlefield. children is not a thing, they have different soul, mind and body. Even though they have similarities, the approach method will be different because every child is unique.

No body’s born as a parent, just like part of growing there is step by step they need to learn. They try, they succeed, they make mistakes, they learn. Every parent is trying to give their best effort for their children.

So keep your finger out from someone else because the rest finger is pointed on you more


Hi, you know what? one day, i saw an eye catching youtube channel about hot mommy, actually picture of one person that catch my eyes. That person was Mrs. Tara, back then when i was looking information about breastfeeding, i found her blog and there were pictures of her from the blog in that channel. Skip the introduction, next….

The channel is vemalecom, catching about the life of 16 womens if i’m not mistaken with various job but mostly about beauty, food, clothes, cosmetics, entrepreneurship etc.

Below are snapshot pictures of the cover video #ibuibuhot


Why i love this kind of show, because it can bring the fire of inspiration inside me #firemanhelpturnmeoff 😀 . Well there might be two perspective, negative and positive.

In my point of view its almost positive things that came out from a form of women with their career, life, family. For me, always interesting knowing the “how to” they start, their passion, dream, obstacle, coordination, routines, partnership, friendship, vulnerability, how they see things in positive way, learn from their bitter life and still can be empathy to others.

Their creativity are so inspiring, lively, their freedom on realizing what’s on their mind, the support from their spouse, collaboration, time management is the most important here.

Their value of life also shown here and bring the idea of the next tag tittle of this show 😀

Just check them out at

By the way, i’m following their personal blog too :p , am i being KEPOERS now? you responsible for this #ibuibuhot 😀